Saturday, February 17, 2007

What's going on with Britney these days?

Some thoughts from Alison:

There have been a lot of stories about Britney lately, and I have been holding my tongue partly because some of it is rumors and it's hard to know for sure, and partly because I wanted to just focus on Kevin. But the truth is, Britney is the mother of two of Kevin's sons, they are in the middle of deciding custody, and Britney's actions do affect everyone around her.

First of all, I'd like to make it clear that I would like nothing better than to see a strong, responsible Britney. She's a very interesting artist, I suspect she has some excellent songs to put on her upcoming 5th studio album. I'd like to see her succeed both professionally and personally, not only for herself, but for her sons as well.

That being said, I have to say I'm not feeling a lot of sympathy for her right now. I think she's far too comfortable in the "victim" role, and has been for a long time now. Part of the problem is that I think this behaviour has been reinforced by those around her. Britney does something extreme, like marrying Jason, or even dying her hair without telling anyone when she has an event coming up, and everyone swoops in. It's worked for her every time she's wanted attention. She may not think of it this way, but when someone continues to do things that seem bad for them, there's always something positive they are getting out of it.

Felicia's letter (her long time assistant), posted on That Other Blog, reinforces this opinon I have of Britney.

Ruben,
Once again I commend you for your Honesty and Integrity. I have been reading your new website daily and am grateful to have that to go to, to check on the antics of Britney. Britney doesnt have a Publicist for me to clear this thru first, so it will come directly from my heart to you!

I am writing in response to Where is Felicia on your editorial.I am home in Mississippi.I am now a trained Corporate Flight Attendant and fly with a tiny jet company out of Georgia. I am also a substitute Preschool Teacher at the Church Preschool in my town. I LOVED being with Britney for the past 9 1/2 years. I enjoyed being a part of HER dream, but now, am living my own dream.

I cherish ALL the incredible opportunities that came my way thru my job with Britney and am crushed/saddened/heart sick by the way her life is unfolding.

I want you to know Ruben that WE (as in her Family and nearest and dearest ALL of whom are NOT on the payroll anymore!!) are doing EVERYTHING in our power to get help for Britney and all in our power to NOT pad the bottom or move the bottom, so when she does indeed hit rock bottom, shell stand up and walk away from this whole fiasco a new, confident, changed, career driven Britney like we all knew and loved.

Theres just so much you can do to help a person dont dare want to be an enabler, and I cannot love her enough for the both of us. I cannot convince her in ANY way to love herself. All I can do is be a friend, someone that loved her for MANY years unconditionally, and PRAY. That, I have decided is the most and best I can do for my friend. I cannot save her from herself, nor can I commit her to any type of treatment program against her wishes and will. I am throwing my hands up and realizing that I am helpless over another ANYONE!

Its been a hard reality for me to face. I have lived my best example daily, and that is ALL Im capable of. To see whats transpiring now, makes me feel a failure, defeated. I LOVED and BELIEVED in what I was a part of for the past 10 years and was so incredibly proud of Britney and all shed become.

All that to say this Ruben, Im so Southern, and the BEST way for me to tell you how I feel is to say "You can just kick an old Dog so many times before he gets off the porch. I, FELICIA, am OFF the porch!!"

Thank you for ALL youve done. ALL the love and support over the years. ALL the non-judgement and ALL the Honesty!

PLEASE let me know if theres ANYTHING I can do to repay your kindness. With as much sincerity as I can Muster,

FE

It's easy to think of Britney as a victim isn't it? She has received a lot of undeserved, bad press over the years, and she hasn't always been treated well by her peers. I think she does have some self-esteem issues, and I suspect she hasn't always received the right kind of support her family while she was growing up. There were pressures for her growing up, financially her family went through some tough times, her father's alcoholism, her parents not getting along.

However, there comes a point, ideally before having children of your own, where you need to stop blaming everyone else and take responsibility for your own life. I suspect Britney is acting out because it's her way of avoiding responsibility. I'm not saying that she's not feeling any pain. But just because someone is in pain does not mean that they are not responsible for their own actions, especially when they have children who need them.

For those Britney fans who still seem to want to blame Kevin for all of this, and there seem to be more than a few, I think they need to be reminded of a few things.
  • Britney showed erratic behaviour before she even met Kevin. In fact, I would characterize her as having a Histrionic Personality (look it up).
  • Britney asked Kevin to marry her, she was never forced into doing anything she didn't want to do.
  • Britney's family and friends supported Britney and Kevin's relationship. Felicia said they had a "wonderful friendship." Her cousin Laura Lynn described Kevin as complimentary and supportive.
  • Kevin always backed Britney up in every interview he did. He defended her when people were attacking her about Sean Preston being on her lap in the car. He gave a heartfelt speech about how much Britney meant to him at the end of Chaotic. He always spoke positively about their relationship, even when being honest about a few issues they had. He was honest about himself too.
  • Marriage is not an easy business for anyone. It's normal to spend the first few years getting the hang of it. I say this as someone who's been married 5 years. It takes time to learn what your spouse needs from you, and it takes time to find the right balance of doing things for yourself and doing things for your spouse. Britney and Kevin are not the first couple to go through issues related to that. If you stick it out, it's possible to work through these things.
  • Kevin didn't want the marriage to end. Despite the fact that he was aware of some of their issues, and despite the fact that Britney couldn't have been the easiest person to be married to, he was in it for the long haul. According the People Yearbook, "he was a sad guy" in Toronto when Britney filed, and he expressed the hope that Britney and the kids "would come and surprise me."
  • When Britney filed for divorce, she did it in a very hurtful way. It did not seem like she was thinking ahead about the fact that a positive relationship with Kevin, even if they were divorced, would be best for everyone, especially their two sons.
  • When Britney filed for divorce, Kevin's responsibilities as a husband ended. It is not his job to swoop in and "help" Britney. She needs to do that for herself now.
I suspect that the reason Britney is acting out is that it's getting harder to be the "victim". Her family and friends are making an effort to not swoop in this time, for Britney's own good. Felicia characterized herself as a dog that was kicked one too many times - that doesn't exactly show Britney as a victim. Kevin is in a commercial that pokes fun at his situation - it reminds people of how Britney dumped him, not exactly showing Britney as a victim. Justin shows support towards Kevin, emphasizing the fact that he does deserve sympathy, and Britney is not the victim.

And.. I agree. The victim is not Britney Spears. Kevin could be playing the victim but that's not his style, instead he is very maturely moving forward with his life. The victims in all of this are Sean Preston and Jayden James.

I guess the question now is if Britney should really be the parent spending the most time with their sons right now. That is a question I will leave up to Kevin, Britney, and their lawyers to figure out. Now that a picture of Jayden has leaked, I hope that at least they change the arrangements so that Kevin spends time with his sons outside of Britney's home and they are able to see Kori and Kaleb and their aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc. on Kevin's side.

82 comments:

caro said...

you have reason alison ,sean and jayden is the victims of the destruction of their mother ,it puts all on the back kevin he can nothing make for the children.it is done lost then for a victim that it is the responsable let us hope that will finish well,if not the worst can arriver

Anonymous said...

bitch delete this ok??

Anonymous said...

It's being reported on a few webistes that she went to a hospital before she shaved her head...something for sexual assault. I feel bad, she has everyone scrutinizing her every single move. Sure she brings some of it upon herself, but compared to every other celebrity she gets it 10x worse. Combine that with fairly recently getting a divorce, having two small children, and her 2nd mother dying I do feel bad.

The thing that I don't understand is why Kevin didn't ask for more time during this arrangement or allow Britney to be in with the kids for a week or however long she was without seeing the boys. Give the children to foster care.

Anonymous said...

I agree it's not Kevin's job to swoop in and save Britney, but it is his responsibility to be there for his kids. Where has he been during this time? You have picture of him partying almost every night for the last two weeks on this site. People yell at Britney and say she probably can't take care of the kids after partying at night, but Kevin is doing the same thing it's just no media outlet cares to report it.

helena said...

they is rubbish because it sexual assault and it is said that is has cancer with ovaries

Anonymous said...

alison you are a bitch without respect and if love that loser talk about him!!

Anonymous said...

i'espere that it is not it which was to invent this history of sexual assault to explain its gesture

Catie said...

I'm not a Britney fan but I'm starting to worry about her. I think she should go to psychologist. I agree with you Allison but i think that Kevin should help her because if she still loves him, he might be the only person who can help her. Kevin is the father of her kids and i think he doesn't want them to see her mother looking and acting like she does now./sorry for my english/

Anonymous said...

this is your brain on federline...
i have no sympathy for either of these two losers...this is a prime example of people who shouldn't even be allowed to raise a goldfish much less children...
only years of therapy could fix this mess...


the conspiracy theorist

Anonymous said...

i think britney loved kevin a lot and that the divorce put her down, she was ok when she was with him.
kevin is not a saint!!! he must had done something wrong for britney to file for divorce. i want her to recover for her own and for the babies

ObviousGirl said...

Kevin didn't neccisarliy have to do anything too horrible to Britney for her to divorce him. She could've just been not use to dealing with the rockiness that is the first year of marriage not to mention being a mother of two, which is why I'm pretty sure Lynn wanted her to wait to have a baby.

Also it is Kevin's job to be there for his kids; but it's also Lynn's and Jaimie's job to be there as well to look out for there grandchildren. Yet they haven't been seen in a while. I think everyone that was really close to her are just standing back and letting her take her fall and hoping that the kids aren't caught in the crossfire.

Then you also have to take into account how, if Kevin got legal custody of the children and took them from her, what the fallout from that would be. If she's already taking her first steps off the deep end and heading toward her own downward sprial, then there's no telling what would happen if those kids were taken from her. She could either decide it's time to get help or she could just spiral farther down than she already is and do something harmful and/or dangerous.

Larry should've never been brought back into her life. He enables her to do things without facing the fall out of her actions.

Anonymous said...

Go ahead Alison and tell it like it is girl. I could not have said it better than that article you just wrote on TeamKevin. Yes, I agree that Britney needs to be mature in her decisions and get real about her relationships with others. There seems to be a lot of latcher on people with the crew that always seems to be hanging on these days. Look at the people behind her in the media. They are really not a positive influence on her choices. kevin was much better than Britney and the media has eluded the public to believe during their 2 year marriage. I would have loved to watched these two get back together from the sidelines. Kevin is an alright guy and yes he made some mistakes. First being getting with her while his girlfriend was pregnant. Move on because you can't change what occurred in the past. Remind me of JLo and Marco suitation,his wife was pregnant but the media did not go there did they? Haven't we all been in a place that we would not have rather been in from the gettyup. I just hope these two can end this charade amicably. Reminds me of the Heather and Paul McCartney suitation. There is hope for both of them professionally and personally. The right thing for them to do at this time is to have a heart to heart conversation without anyone else present about the direction of this divorce, maritual stuff they need to get off their chest, the children and how they really feel about everything and each other. They need to pour their hearts out to one another. Truce! Oh well, stuff happens and it won't be the first time a spouse got pissed off and it won't be the last time either. There is obvious something between Britney and Kevin that pissed her off to want to file the divorce papers from the gate, however, I think she is having second thoughts about it? And that is OK! She is human and has a right to love whomever she wishes. The media can destroy a good relationship and cause damage to a marriage. Stop reading the tabliods and focus on you and your kids! Doodoo or get off the fence and move on with your careers and lives! All of this negative press is not helping either of their careers and personal lives. They are both talented people who once cared a great deal for one another. Just look at their wedding pictures, they are beautiful! The media and those folks they were hanging out with were all in their marriage and headlining stuff that should not have been reported in the first place. Marriage is a hard place to go and it requires a lot of work from both parties in regardless of your age. Is there hope for these two and the children? Yes, there is hope and whole lot of other stuff pertaining to their lives. I say get over it and move on if the two of them are not going to get back together. Talk about media headlines. Now that would be the talk of the town. Reminds me of Shanna and Travis relationship. If they decided to reconciliate thier marriage, it would be their business. The media would jump all over it and report negative press about the couple. They would need to ignore it though to move forward. As for the shaved head, it actually looks HOT on her. She has the face to carry the look and when she put on her real face for an event. Capowed Britney is really a beautiful women. There are not too many on this earth who would be daring to cut off all of their hair. Demi Moore cut off all of her hair and what did the media report about that? I am sure Kevin is looking at her and her behavior! Is he worried? No one knows for sure, now do they? The kids are young and they just need to bridge the gap between the two of them by themselves.

Anonymous said...

Kevin should step in NOW. And get those kids until she gets help. I bet he won't do anything. Put them in a temporarey(sp?) home or with someone who cares for them.

Anonymous said...

Kick them while their down Alison.

ObviousGirl said...

^
If her family stepped in and did a intervention (likes its been rumured), chances are the kids might be with Lynne; but like I said before, if Kevin takes those kids from her it could go from bad to worse or from worse to better for her emotional wise.

I think if anything Kevin's lawyer needs to call for a meeting between the two of them and they need to have a long serious heartfelt talk about her behavior, whatever it is she's going through, and her getting the help she desperately needs. An while doing that they can reach a compramise about custody arrangements that would make both happy while allowing her to get help without feeling her kids have been stripped from her.

Oh yeah, Demi Moore shaved her head for her role in GI Jane, she didn't do it on a whim.

ObviousGirl said...

Britney drug herself this far down and no one is kicking her. They're just calling it like they see it. What Allison posted wasn't even mean, she pretty much just repeated what some Britney fans (the ones who don't live in rose colored glasses), have been saying for a while.

Anonymous said...

the only thing that is bothering me about this is that there are rumors that she was RAPED recently and none of the media outlets are following up on that story.
to me that trumps her shaving her head, if anything shaving her head was probably a byproduct of that rape. Apparently her manager Larry released a statement today saying she had been through something tragic, also a woman at the tattoo parlour said that Britney said she was shaving her head cause she "was tired of people touching" her. That is a very alarming statement to make. Also she went to the hospital this morning, is it possible that it was to have a late rape kit performed?

I want to hear more about that because that is VERY SCARY

Anonymous said...

I know that Britney is a grown woman and there's legally not much her family can do to help her
BUT
at this point
it might be time to take some illegal action
kidnap her ass by sedating her and fly her back to her moms mansion in Louisiana on private jet.
The first week, they may have to restrain her to keep her from leaving, have a psychologist, psychoanalyst, medical doctor and psychiatrist there to dope her up immobilizing her.
After a week, she will calm down and see that this is what's best for her.
Her mom and her children will be there.
her friend Jenny (the girl she drove cross country with a few years ago who use to be in the band Innosense) and her cousin Laura Lynn need to go there to keep her company. She needs a rehab counselor there as well as a educator. They should see if Angelina Jolie will visit her (she lives in Louisiana now) and tell her about the wonders of visiting other countries and learning about real problems.
That should last at least 4 months of her not stepping foot back in Los Angeles.
THEN they should enroll her in college (if she has a highschool diploma) and make her go to school for something like politics or something where she is thinking about the world at large instead of her self, her career, men, or paparazzi.
3-4 years later and she will be a normal happy girl.

Anonymous said...

^If she was raped that would make her a victim, right Alison?

Anonymous said...

Bitch shaved her head cuz she's a lesbian. Read it in the magazines and weep, Britney fans. Britney wants to be the "male" lesbo in her gay relationships. This is so typical.

Anonymous said...

Poor kids. Mom gone crazy, father no where to be found. Shame Shame.

Anonymous said...

"Bitch shaved her head cuz she's a lesbian. Read it in the magazines and weep, Britney fans. Britney wants to be the "male" lesbo in her gay relationships. This is so typical."


I would become a lesbian after being with K-Fed too.

Anonymous said...

You dumbass motherfucking bitches can all shut the fuck up! Britney is going through a really difficult time right now, and this is no fucking way to treat someone who is extremely lost, and is now apparently mental ill! You laugh and get joy out of someone elses pain! I hope all of die now! You have no heart, and no soul. You morons should be ashamed of your fucking selves! Laughing at this poor woman! Just imagine if you dumbfucks was in Brit's shoes for one fucking day. I guarantee you, you dumb twats will feel the same way as she does!

I hope Brit's kids get taken away, and provided by her family. Only until she is stable, and is herself again. I couldn't give a shit about a comeback! I want Britney to be happy, and in good fucking health! I hope all of you jackasses who are poking fun at her, gets hit by a bus!

Anonymous said...

*get* hit by a buss. Nuff said!

Anonymous said...

Ya'll are rude heartless people. This is the mother of his children who is goin through a lot more than some do in a life time.U honestly think Kevin would be proud of his fans for acting like this No.He would probably be very upset with his fans if he knew how they acted.Ya'll should be ashamed for all the hateful and cold comments.That all I have to say.

Anonymous said...

See what you did Alison???

Anonymous said...

Alison the bitch started all of this shit. I don't give a fuck how much you pathetic losers hate Britney. Kicking her while she's in a horrible state of mind right is just HORRIBLE! You could at least show the woman a little respect! I don't like Kevin but I would NEVER degrade him like this, the way you fucking idiots are doing Britney! You are mistreating her really badly, and it's not fucking right! Stop laughing at her!

Anonymous said...

Can we all just get along???


Rodney King

ObviousGirl said...

Alison didn't do anything wrong. Half of these assholes turning this into a juvinile fight are from a Britney board she (and myself) use to visit. They love to do nothing but come around and make juvenile post and spread the word of how wronged Britney has been by the world. How there's a double standard when it comes to her. How she doesn't need any help, she's just being normal girl, while failing to realize that she's seeking soul coustody of two children.

Half of the people on here aren't wishing any ill will on her. They're simply stating what a small minority of Britney fans have been saying since she started acting this way. That she needs help.

Don't lump everyone here in the same category with all the assholes.

If Britney were raped and sent to the hosipital, she would've been at the hospital a lot longer having a rap kit performed on her. Plus police would've been involved and even though they pretty much let her do whatever she wants right now, the people around her now would hopefully force her to follow something like this through so that a sexual predator is taken off the streets. Not to mention rape victims names and information isn't allowed to be released and I think criminal charges can be filed if those rights are violated. Also if it happened somewhere else why go to a hospital over hundreds of miles from where the incident happened So as of now, the rape rumor is nothing more than that a rumor. Her bad experience in Miami (or wherever) could've involved too much partying or drinking and she had a scary moment that was a brief wakeup call.

Unhappy with what's being said? Then take your ass back to whatever Britney or gossip board you came from and go call those mods whore and all other sorts of derogatory names because they all have pretty similar stuff posted up on there site.

And while you're at it go post and call the webmasters of CNN.com, MSNBC.com, and every other news outlet thats covering this story derogatory name.

Anonymous said...

If someone has emotional issues that need to be dealt with...then they are not immature or out for attention or whatever! She has issues the obviously need to be dealt with but writing all of that crap and saying that it is her fault and she is “playing a victim” is garbage! And it is quite obvious that you have no idea the extent that emotional issues run! Everyone around Britney is to blame, including Britney herself and Kevin as well! Emotional turmoil does NOT happen over night!!! It builds and is a product of time and circumstance!

Kevin and anyone else who truly cares for Britney’s well being and that of her children should step in and let her know that they are there for her…in whatever capacity! If Kevin feels his kids are in danger…then he should do something about it and should have already done something….that speaks volumes in itself because it is obvious that she has had issues since before JJ was born, yet no one tried to step in and help her! Emotionally troubled people often feel like they have no one even if it isn’t true and it is up to those loved ones to keep pushing and reminding the person that they are there! It sucks, but it’s the truth! Emotionally troubled people are victims because they cannot see a viable way out and how to properly deal with the turmoil….They need the help of their loved ones and a professional in order to cope and deal with the issues properly!

Anonymous said...

Suppose the rape scenario is true...If you were Britney Spears and got raped would you want the information to go public? Most rapes aren't reported and if they are that person already feels like shit. I can see Britney not filing a report because god knows if she did she would be hounded for that reason and all the media outlets would be talking about it. It's not necessarily something I would want to deal with knowing the whole world is watching.

Also, lord knows the girls hair was fried...maybe she just cut it all off so it'll grow back healthy. Maybe she did it as a way to deal with her aunt's death...who knows. I think she is definetly going through something, but it speaks volume that Kevin hasn't already stepped in and done something to get the children.

ObviousGirl said...

^If the rumor of her being raped was true then the information has already been leaked out to the public without her having to file a report. Plus there are laws out there that protect the identity of rape victims from being leaked out. If the information did get leaked out the person who leaked it would more than likely loose there job. Do you honestly think Britney would be happy if she let some bastard that violated her walk free because of being hounded by the press? She's been hounded by the press since she was 15 and I doubt she would use that as an excuse to not file a police report. For all we know she could've went to the hospital to check herself in for help and then backed out like she did when she got to rehab.

I'm pretty sure that everyone around Britney that loves and cares for her, have expressed there love and concern for her well being; but there's only so much you can do and so many times you can tell a person that you love them and are there for them before you realize that maybe you have to just let go and let them hit the bottom. If that person won't take your help, then telling them how much you care for them while they continue to tear themselves down isn't going to make anything any better.

Anonymous said...

I don't think she was raped. She was in treatment facility in Antigua and then she came back to LA. The rape rumors should be taken with a grain of salt. She's just going through a tough time. I hope she get the help that she needs.

Anonymous said...

^ She was never admitted into a facility. It has been confirmed that she went with her manager to look at a facility in Antigua, but that she wasn't admitted.

Anonymous said...

fed-ex smells a big fat payday from this mess...
you know because he's so concerned about the welfare of his kids...

Anonymous said...

^If all he cares about is the money, like you say, that he will recieve because she is having emotional issues...then it could work agianst him. If he doesn't act when he beleives his children are even remotely in danger...he shows the judge that he doesn't really care. Which could then affect his settlement...because the judge can overrule the decision and tell them to go back and consider agian.

Anonymous said...

First off, I just wanna say that if there weren't children involved in all of this crap, it'd be funny as hell. BUT there are minors involved and I am now really concerned for Britney and the safety of her kids.

Britney fans: now you're all claiming she was raped?! Is that what you guys need to do to keep her on a saintly level in ur minds? Seriously, as many security guards she surrounds herself w., sexual assault or assault of any kind is highly unlikely. The truth is that Britney's been outta control for awhile and she's finally crashing & burning.

I'm not dilluted, however, and we all know Kevin isn't a saint. I've never really a fan of his in the past. But if I were a judge in their custody case, I'd give Kevin the kids at this point. Britney is headed for a very rude awakening and her children shouldn't have to be exposed to this poison.

P.S. - WHERE THE HELL IS LYNN & JAMIE SPEARS?!?!?! Save your daughter, intervene. I know she pays for your luxurious lifestyle, but enough is enough; it's time to step in.

Anonymous said...

^^^ I agree totally.

Btw, Alison: I looked up histrionic personality disorder. Wow, if that isnt Brit Brit....

Anonymous said...

To 7:55:

No britney fan was claiming she was raped. These were rumors floating around. Of course it's gonna be talked about.

Anonymous said...

Only payday Kevin would get is child support(only if he ask for it)

Anonymous said...

Let's wait and see if Kevin does something this week about the kids. He can't do anything on a saturday or sunday.

Anonymous said...

All I can say is YES!

Kevin just got custody of the kids, and got a whole lot richer!

Anonymous said...

^ She was never admitted into a facility. It has been confirmed that she went with her manager to look at a facility in Antigua, but that she wasn't admitted.


Bullshit!

Britney reported plunked down 10,000 pounds sterling to get detoxed, but punked out after just one day.

Anonymous said...

Well hate to diappoint y'all but Brit mom is in Malibu the paps got her on video.So Mom is to the rescue and she will help Brit and the grandsons.I am a Brit fan and I am glade that Lynne finaly with her.Kevin will never get custody of those kids.

Anonymous said...

To 7:55

I dislike Britney too, but to even say something like this is funny is disgusting. I really can't understand how people find humor in someone hurting themselves.

Anonymous said...

Uh GUYS an ROC order does not have to wait until the weekday! Judges are on call at any time for removal of custody purposes! If Kevin wanted to take the children today all he would have to do is get Kaplan to file a petition and have a judge sign the order. Better yet, he could have called DCFS last night or this morning and they would have been out there within hours...if he really thought they were in danger!!!!

Anonymous said...

Bullshit!

Britney reported plunked down 10,000 pounds sterling to get detoxed, but punked out after just one day.


Uh!! No one but tabliods are saying she checked into a facility. Her people said that she looked at one, not that she was admitted!

Alison said...

So it seems that Lynne rushed to Britney's side. Same old patterns. It's a shame, and I'm afraid nothing is going to change unless the people around her change. Let her shave her head, it's not going to kill her. I actually think she looks pretty good bald. Sometimes tough love is what a person needs.

For the person who thinks I have no idea about emotional issues you are wrong. I know what it's like to have them, and I know what it's like to be the child of a parent who has them. That's why I have formed such strong opinions about it.

I also do not feel I started anything here. People have been expressing opinions about all of this for some time now. I decided to express mine today, and knew some people wouldn't like it. But it is my honest opinion.

Anonymous said...

It is quite tragic that the children are dealing with it all. Britney is not fit to be a positive and affective parent right now. They need to take the children from her. But I don't think Kevin is any better to be honest. He hasn't been the sole provider to any of his children, and I worry if he could truly handle it.

Those kids need to be in the presence of all their family. Kevin's and Britney's alike. I just hope Britney is getting the help she needs because depression and drugs are a bitch, and it is clear she is dealing with both.

Anonymous said...

Alison, what's wrong with Lynne coming to be with Britney? I really don't understand your logic in that being a bad thing. If Britney called her mom and told her she is having a truly difficult time where she needs the support of her and her family I view that as a step in the right direction. I have an aunt who suffers from depression and decided to alienate herself from the rest of the family. The day she finally picked up the phone and reached out to us was huge and I believe it took a lot of strength on her part to admit she needed help. Hell in Fe's letter she said Brit's been pushing her family away. I think it took strength on Britney's part to call up her mom and ask for help. Maybe it's just me but the way you're coming off makes it seem like you think Britney should just avoid all contact from her family and friends and try to work out her problems all by herself. If she is suffering from depression or an addiction I don't think tough love is the best prescription.

Alison said...

But she didn't call her mom. She shaved her head. There's a difference. Yes, Britney needs some help, but part of it includes toning down the dramatics. If she's seeing a therapist, that's what she needs, not her mom reinforcing old patterns once again.

Anonymous said...

She probably needs both a therapist and her family. You seem to have a lot of hatred to Lynne...why is that?

Anonymous said...

Whose to say that she didn't shave her head and then realize that she has some issues that need to be worked out, thus she called her family (which is a great step if you are emotionally afflicted and isolating yourself from your loved ones) and said "can you come here we need to talk?" Who is to say that she isn't currently working towards seeing a therapist? Her mother could be watching the children while she sets up a consultation with a therapist!

Anonymous said...

Stop fucking saying that Kevin should get those kids. This man has got you losers so brainwashed, that it's fucking sad. Just because Britney shaved her head, that does not mean she's a fucking bad mother. Get off of Kevin's nuts already. Money is power, you dumbfucks. He wouldn't get those kids, if he had Johnny Cochran for his fucking attorney.

ObviousGirl said...

She probably needs both a therapist and her family. You seem to have a lot of hatred to Lynne...why is that?

You call this hatred towards Lynne? You haven't seen some of the stuff that's been posted on other boards about her since she's shown up. I think Alison feels that her swooping in, whenever Britney acts out in someway that's extremely dramatic and attention grabbing, and cleaning things up is only hendering Britney behavior and not making her better or getting to the heart of what's really wrong with Britney.

Alison, isn't it possible that this could be Britney's rock bottom (or at least close to it) given her odd and erratic behavior during and after the haircut? Granted it could be just another cry for attention like the Vegas wedding; but Britney's not that convincing an actress. The videos seem like she's genuinely coming (or about to become) unhinged.

Here's hoping she goes back to therapy like she did a long while back.

ObviousGirl said...

Money is power, you dumbfucks. He wouldn't get those kids, if he had Johnny Cochran for his fucking attorney

Money make equal power to some; but it doesn't mean a damn thing if the court sees you as more of a danger to your children than a provider and guardian.

Perhaps you should invest in your own advice and get your head out of Britney's ass.

Anonymous said...

You dumb bitch. If OJ Simpson can get away with murder, and Michael Jackson can get away with child molestation charges, what the fuck makes you think Kevin is going to get those kids??? Just like I said, blinded by Kevin. Why don't you take a fucking trip down memory lane.

Btw, fucktards. Lynne is Brit's fucking mother. She has every right to be there for her daughter. I'm very glad that Lynne is reaching out to Brit, like a mother should. I hope to God that Brit's family gets her the help she needs, and truly deserves. I don't want her to end up like another Anna Nicole. Sorry, no disrespect.

Anonymous said...

I feel for the babies. Can you imagine how horrifying it is to be an infant, and see your crazy mother gaze down at you with her shiny bald dome?

Anonymous said...

Isn't this supposed to be a KEVIN blog?

Anonymous said...

fed-ex is Fresno-trash...always has, always will be...get over it TeamKevin...
Expect some kind spin cycle from whoever will represent him because he can't afford any reputable lawyers right now and for damn sure no sane person would want to be a talking head on the news networks to make a case for fed-ex to take custody of the kids and collect some cash...
the only victims of this mess are the children...this must not be about who gets what but what is best for the 2 boys....


the conspiracy theorist

Anonymous said...

Uhm... why the HELL are you dwelling on Brit? I mean, are you looking for some gratification expressing your so-called opinion?? So yeah, Brit f*cked up good on many levels. Bad form when she's supposed to be a mom. So, now what? What were you expecting to get out of expressing your opinion?? A roaring ovation?

I really don't get you. Maybe consider raving about the subject of your blog instead of ranting about someone who isn't. But whatever... its YOUR blog. Not ours. YOU can do whatever you want. But whatever you are looking for, look for it some other way.

Anonymous said...

why you put britney there???you are an horrible person

Anonymous said...

^I bet it's nothing personal on Alison's part. Everyone, and i mean everyone is talking about britney on their site.

Alison said...

If it was only Britney and she didn't have two sons it wouldn't bother me so much. She'd only be hurting herself, and I suppose the people around her too but at least they are adults and they should be able to handle it.

Right now what I care about most is the well being of those two boys.

Shar said Kevin was there every day of Kori's life and did everything for her until he and Shar broke up and he went out to find some work. Kori and Kevin share a wonderful bond. I don't see why he wouldn't be able to do this for Sean Preston and Jayden James as well. He wouldn't have to do it alone either, I'm sure some members of his family would be there sometimes too, and the nanny should be there too. I think it would work just fine.

Anonymous said...

The well being of those two boys???? They aren't YOUR sons. Get over it. Stick to talking about Kevin, or start a new blog. This had no place here.

Alison said...

They're not my boys, they're Kevin's. So of course this relates to Kevin and there's no reason this shouldn't be here.

Anonymous said...

Britney shaving her head bald, does not have nothing to do with Kevin. Since he's a total bore, and nothing is hardly ever reported on him, you have to resort to posting news up about Britney. You created this blog and gave it "Team Kevin". The only time you should be posting news on Brit, is if that news has a Kevin mention.

You just keep posting about Brit, because your site is boring, and you have nothing else to talk about. Lame.

ObviousGirl said...

You dumb bitch. If OJ Simpson can get away with murder, and Michael Jackson can get away with child molestation charges, what the fuck makes you think Kevin is going to get those kids??? Just like I said, blinded by Kevin. Why don't you take a fucking trip down memory lane.

LOL, I'm a dumb bitch now? Michael Jackson got off because the father of the first supposed victim wanted cash. He only got the cops involved because MJ didn't give in to the first demand. The second just blackmailed him and when he didn't give in to her demands they went to court. Anyone with 1/4 of a brain knows that any parent would not want money from someone who molested and violated their child. You'd want to see that person behind bars and punished for the rest of there life so they could never harm another child. These people were opportunist looking to get rich.

If anyone is blinded here, you mentally unbalanced fangirl, its you. Lynne is good woman and I highly doubt that she would deny the father of her grandchildren his right to see them and have time with them solely because her daughters self involved fanbase carries a petty ass unfounded grudge against.

If you wanna go sing Lynne's praises to anyone then you might to go back to the board you came from given that most of them are calling her a gold digger and saying she's the source of Britney's problems and all sorts of other nasty things.

What do I need a trip down memory lane for? Both Britney and Kevin are more than likely responsible for the demise of there marriage. Stop pretending that Britney can do no wrong and that only those around her have wronged her.

Alison said...

You just keep posting about Brit, because your site is boring, and you have nothing else to talk about.

There's nothing to say to that except you're wrong and you know it.

Anonymous said...

How am I wrong exactly, Alison? You posted news on Brit here, knowing damn well that it has nothing to do with Kevin. Just admit it. Your site wouldn't be shit, if it wasn't for you posting news about Britney. The people who are part of Team Kevin are obviously more into Brit, than they are into Kevin. No matter how much they hate the woman, and try to deny it. Before some smartass come along saying I must care about Kevin, because I'm on his site you can just cann it. I'm just stating the truth.

No harm here.

Alison said...

Okay then, maybe you're wrong and you don't know it.

Anonymous said...

to anonymous 1:05pm-you write: this site wouldn't be shit if you weren't posting about Britney. Not only is your sentence grammatically incorrect, it is just not true. Look at all the entries on this blog and you will see that the majority of the news is about Kevin. Britney and the children are mentioned, of course, as they will always be a part of Kevin's life.

Anonymous said...

I've seen what you used to do to Britney in the past. You've posted things on her that had nothing to do with Kevin. Everytime there is an article on Britney, it's always full of responses. A whole lot more than what Kevin gets. Unless, it's about the custody battle. That's a whole different ball game. Just like I said, this is a blog for Kevin. Unless the news is related to him, you shouldn't post it unless he's mentioned.

ObviousGirl said...

^No offense; but your wrong and if you don't like what Alison's posted here then don't come here. Go whine somewhere else. The only reason this post has so many responses is because jerks like you keep coming in and starting shit while make false accusations. Go be a parasitic leech to a Britney blog and stop lurking.

Anonymous said...

this is a cry for help.bottom line is she needs to sort out her life,shes has a resposibility to her two boys,if she continues on this downward spiral ,shell be dead when u hear of her next,going through a divorce is hard,but battaling custody for your kids is another story the judge is watching her unravel before his eyes and kevin clearly has the upper hand right now.she neeeds help ,no one can save her from herself but her,she has to acknowledge that she has problems then take baby steps in getting it sort out.she needs to get far away as possible from the lime light,she has become selfdestructive because of the pressure of fame,get your prorities together brit u will be ok.

Anonymous said...

These fucking stupid ass people need to stop coming in here and telling Alison WHAT TO POST or NOT POST on HER blog that SHE takes the time to update.
People SHUT THE HELL UP and let this woman update this blog anyway she wants to.
We find ALL the news fascinating whether its primary focus is Kevin or Britney.
Like you said Alison, there will be times where the news indirectly affects something in Kevin's life. He may not be the primary source in the news but it effects his life directly or indirectly in some big way.
The mental stability of the mother of his children DIRECTLY effects him and thus it is particularly valid and INTELLIGENT on your part Alison to post it here.

Everyone else who cannot recognize that are particularly ignorant and unintelligent so please pay no attention to them.

lashun said...

I argee, with the post above, Alison you can post whatever you want.

Anonymous said...

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

Anonymous said...

>>>Anonymous said...
These fucking stupid ass people need to stop coming in here and telling Alison WHAT TO POST or NOT POST on HER blog that SHE takes the time to update.
People SHUT THE HELL UP and let this woman update this blog anyway she wants to.
We find ALL the news fascinating whether its primary focus is Kevin or Britney.
Like you said Alison, there will be times where the news indirectly affects something in Kevin's life. He may not be the primary source in the news but it effects his life directly or indirectly in some big way.
The mental stability of the mother of his children DIRECTLY effects him and thus it is particularly valid and INTELLIGENT on your part Alison to post it here.<<<<

I absolutely agree with you, and Alison for the posting.

Kevin should do something, needs to do something, and I hope he'll step in.

Kelly.

Anonymous said...

Keep on posting Alison and I will keep on reading. I am glad that the family is reuniting with their daughter and grandchildren. It is a good feeling to read that Kevin is right by Britney side through all of this, he could of looked the other way out of embarrassment. Hell with the naysayers, I am sure that their life is far from perfect!

anon said...

Alison I think everything you said is right, Britney does seem to have some type of disorder. I think her family have tried their hardest but britney is stubborn and is not ready or willing to listen to anybody. She needs help. As her father said she is "a sick little girl" and as he also said "It is not about what people think" possibly insinuating there is hidden depth to Britneys erratic behaviour and the real reasons are deeper than the obvious and usual drinks, drugs etc. Although they most definately have contributed.

anon said...

Alison I think everything you said is right, Britney does seem to have some type of disorder. I think her family have tried their hardest but britney is stubborn and is not ready or willing to listen to anybody. She needs help. As her father said she is "a sick little girl" and as he also said "It is not about what people think" possibly insinuating there is hidden depth to Britneys erratic behaviour and the real reasons are deeper than the obvious and usual drinks, drugs etc. Although they most definately have contributed.
I feel sorry for Kevin, behind closed doors hes probably been through alot. Justin probably saw little bits of the Britney we see now aswel. Hes never said much but there have been times when he has said enough. In one interview he lets on that the world does not know the real Britney that shes more clever and devious than she lets on and he does not believe he ever really knew her.
I belive Britney may also be suffering post natal depression. Thats why she never at home and always out. She probably cant cope with being around ther kids and feels trapped. Her dream of starting a young family is not as easy as she first believed. She brought into the world life long commitments that were her responsibilty. Not things that could be managed or moulded to fit like everything else in her life.