Tuesday, February 20, 2007

People - Kevin Is Concerned About Britney, Says a Friend

During Britney Spears's recent wild weekend, her ex, Kevin Federline, canceled plans to party in Las Vegas during the NBA All-Star weekend in order to stay in Los Angeles to be available for the couple's children, sources tell PEOPLE.

"Kevin is concerned for Britney and his children," says a friend of Federline's. "Of course he's concerned about her. He loves her. He's always loved her – even after she started divorce proceedings."

The pair, who split in November, have two sons together, Sean Preston, 1, and Jayden James 5 months.

According to another source, Federline had booked a room from Feb. 14 - 19 at the Venetian Resort Hotel Casino, but canceled the reservation.

It's not clear if Federline has been in direct contact with his two sons or Spears, who voluntarily entered a rehabilitation facility on Tuesday.

A rep for Federline could not be reached for comment.

Source: people.com

41 comments:

Anonymous said...

Now this is what his friends should be saying instead of "waiting for her to mess up" or whatever the hell they were claming. This doesn't make him seem like a total tool.

Anonymous said...

That picture breaks my heart. I really think filing for divorce could be the worst mistake Britney has ever made.

Anonymous said...

Filing for divorce? I doubt it. It is clear that their marriage was not in a great place. Britney is not right and it didn't just happen. I suspect she was in this place while she was still with Kevin only she hid it. Now that she was free and didn't have to hide it just came out. I am glad she had this meltdown and is getting help because keeping it inside could have been drastically worst.

Anonymous said...

Don't even try to blame the failed marriage on Britney. It was best thing Britney has done. So many people lost respect for her, when she married that dude. Even more when they found out that Kevin left his pregnant girlfriend at the time, to be with Spears. Good luck to both in the future.

Anonymous said...

What if they got back together? That would be something huh?

Anonymous said...

He should have shown concern and cancelled his trips and night's out a while ago. Or he should have asked to take the children for a while (which he didn't because they were with Britney last week in NY)! True concern doesn't pop up over night, especially for one's children...you do what you have to before it gets to this point!

Anonymous said...

Who cares if people lost respect for her when she married Kevin. If she loved him that's all that should have mattered. Unfortunately I think she did take fans opinions into account and that's why I think she may have made a huge mistake.

Anonymous said...

goog for kevin the best thing he can do is support the mother of his kids,i still think they love each other,britney was probably hurt that kevin hung out with jt.probably felt as though they ganged up on her,i would love for kevin to come back in her life this is when she needs everyones support.

Anonymous said...

Obviously she didn't truly love him if she was willing to drop him like a hat because of her "fans"

I am starting to think she only married Kevin in the first place was because she was lonely and in need of some love.

Anonymous said...

She's young, and apparently has had some problems for awhile now. She may have just screwed up. Or maybe her mom wanted her to do it so she could make a career comeback without him.

Anonymous said...

I seriously doubt Lynne Spears has any control over Britney these days.

Anonymous said...

Then why would she be shaving her hair off just to get her mom's attention?

Anonymous said...

yeah right...like this fool really cared about the well being of ANY of his children...this dumbass is in his late 20's and he's already a deadbeat dad...he smells a big fat payday and those two boys are his lottery ticket...
i am so glad brit's in rehab so maybe she could get her moment of clarity and take care of her ass...
Fresno-trash is gonna get a wakeup...

Anonymous said...

No one knows why she shaved off her hair. It is all speculation and yes her mothers attention is just one of the many theories out there.

Anonymous said...

We do know that her only comment about it at the time was how her mother would react. I don't think we should underestimate how important Lynne is to Britney. Britney isn't handling herself very well these days but I think Lynne has always been a huge influence on Britney's life.

Anonymous said...

No doubt Britney loves her mother. She gets emotionally when she think of her. I am just saying that eventhough she loves her mother, Lynne really has no control over Britney's actions and especially can't force things on here. If she did I think Britney wouldn't have married Kevin and probably would have been in rehad a long time ago.

Anonymous said...

You're assuming Lynne had a problem with Kevin. I don't think she did. She was filmed giving him a big hug at the wedding. Britney's friends and family said lots of nice things about him as well. Jamie Lynn said she loved Kevin at one point and was in tears the day Britney filed for divorce.

Anonymous said...

However, back to what I was saying before Lynne may have felt Kevin was bad for her career. I don't know. It's all speculation. But I do think Kevin's album tanking was a factor. She made a big show of disassociating herself from Kevin immediately after the divorce.

Anonymous said...

I feel absolutely horrible for the girl. X17 apparently has taken pics of her in the backyard of the facility. Leave the damn girl alone.

Anonymous said...

They found her already? That's unfortunate. :(

Anonymous said...

Like all the sites have. She's standing in the backyard in a pink shirt. Poor girl, I wouldn't be suprised if the tabloids sent a plant in there to see what she is up to.

Anonymous said...

I don't think Lynne hated Kevin. But I doubt she wanted them engaged, let alone married after weeks of knowing each other either. And I am sure she made it known to Britney as well.

As for her career? Who knows. It was clear that Team Britney hated Kevin. No argument there.It was probably a factor, sure. But Britney also ended her tour to be with Kevin, so something tells me that she really could have gave two shits.

So X17 is stalking her rehab center? That is a new low for them.

Anonymous said...

They are in helicopters above the facility snapping away.

Anonymous said...

Britney only filed for divorce as a emotional blackmail tactic to get Kevin back.
She has asked Kevin to come back to her TWICE since she filed for divorce.
He told her he's think about it.
She knows she needs him emotionally. She knows that she is slipping mentally and feels like Kevin can save her.
He doesnt want to just run back to her when she calls cause he doesnt want to end up in the same position they were before.

He loves that girl so much and she loves him too.

Anonymous said...

^
Above poster you are an idiot.

Anonymous said...

Britney filed for divorce to get Kevin back? Um. Ok. So if that is true than he was leaving her and so therefore him asking for her money kinda proves he was in it for the dough all along?

Sorry not going to beleive that one.

Anonymous said...

yes she filed for divorce because as a extreme tactic of getting Kevin to pay attention to her.

The girl has THREATENED divorce several times to him.

Each time she got her way.

This last time she threatened and he had enough of her threats.

She thought that by filing he would see she was serious.

but it backfired and he responded to the divorce and told her, "youre right, it's over"

and she soon after COMPLETELY LOST HER MIND

Anonymous said...

^
Well if he wasn't paying attention then it was a shitty marriage and she was smart to get out.

You're an idiot.

Anonymous said...

Spears' manager Larry Rudolph confirmed that the pop star is now a patient at a rehab facility. It was not disclosed which facility she is at. "Britney Spears has voluntarily checked herself into an undisclosed rehab facility," Rudolph's statement, released to Access, read. "We ask that the media respect her privacy as well as those of her family and friends at this time." Sources close to the singer told Access Spears checked into rehab yesterday, the same day a tearful Lynne Spears, Britney's mother, told Access "we love our daughter." This is not Britney's first time in rehab. Access Hollywood has learned that on Valentine's Day, the Spears family staged an intervention with the pop star and shortly thereafter helped the pop singer check into a facility. "She hasn't been reasonable in a good while," the source said. Britney has been drinking and partying and she has suffered from years of "instabilities," the source added ... The source close to Spears however said "it's not just stardom" at fault for the singer's recent actions. Spears' needs "deep healing with [her] family." Britney's recent moves are of little concern to the pop princess' parents. They just want her well, the source said and "will not give up, ever." They have also asked those who know and love Spears, to "pray for help."

Anonymous said...

Kevin threatened to test her hair?

Anonymous said...

^
It was mostly extensions anyway so I don't see how he could. Kevin shaves his head too...he must do drugs.

Anonymous said...

that weasel is waiting in the wings to get his big payday

Anonymous said...

Considering the hair is still out there for sale I doubt she really cares.

Anonymous said...

First of All: A lot of people are under the impression that Britney’s mother, father, Felicia or other family members wanted her to leave Kevin.

That is so far from the truth it’s not even funny.

They ALL BEGGED him on multiple occasions NOT to leave her.
They almost got divorced after Sean P was born and her mother BEGGED him not to leave Britney.

There are so many people in her family that thought Kevin was the savior for Britney. They thought that Kevin would be able to do what they hadnt been able to do for her. KEEP her sane and normal. And it worked for awhile but unfortunately as most wise people know, you have to please yourself, noone can do that for you and you have to maintain your own sanity, noone, not even Kevin can do that for you.

The only people who wanted Kevin gone are her business handlers and fans. All for selfish reasons. They felt that Kevin was keeping her away from the stage, her career, her music, the fans. And maybe in a way he was. But, that’s what Britney wanted. Britney didn’t want to work anymore. She wanted someone to take care of her. So Kevin decided he would be the primary caregiver in their family and he tried to construct a career for himself so that he could take care of his wife and be a positive role model for his children. That is his ultimate goal, although he like many parents does have his faults.
And even thought that was what she wanted as well, Britney didn’t know how to let him do that without using her money against him whenever she wasn’t getting enough attention or getting her way. She KNEW that he had to get out there in the public and in the clubs. One day she would be ALL for it and supportive and the next day she’d be trying to sabotage him by causing arguments and fights.That was a very LARGE part of their disgreements during their marriage, that she would tell him she wanted one thing and then she would act in a irrational way. It took a tolll on Kevin and their marriage.

SECOND OF ALL: All of you people saying terrible things about Felicia don’t care about Britney!! Both Britney and her family continue to LOVE and SUPPORT Felicia immensely.

As for Felicia’s letter to Ruben, I think overall Felicia speaking out publicly on Britney’s current state of mind is POSITIVE.

Britney’s closest longtime friends and family have kept a lot of her troubles quiet and just informed her privately of their opinions on her behavior and because of that she’s been able to IGNORE them and tell them to shut the hell up and get out of her life, or she’d threaten to remove any financial gifts she had given them.
Britney has been able to keep many harmful SECRETS and those secrets are HURTING not HELPING her.

Maybe it is time someone who loves her finally said something publicly about it to get her to pay attention and let her know her behavior is NOT ok. You can’t treat people who love you and who you claim to love like a piece of property or a pet that you kick when you’re angry.

Felicia didn’t say anything HURTFUL about Britney in her letter to Ruben, just that she needs help.

Kudos to Felicia for being brave enough to do something Britney's own parents don't have the strength to do, but something that is ultimately what Britney needed.

It’s about time people including Britney’s hardcore devoted fans (of which I have been one) stop trying to protect her and shield her, that’s what’s led to her behaving the way she is currently.

She thinks she can get away with ANYTHING; she treats EVERYONE including Kevin and her children like possessions.

Kevin has always said that he loves Britney but eventually people were going to find out that she is crazy.

No one can blame this on Kevin; if anything Kevin was able to help her shield how unstable she was mentally by absorbing some of the blame. Kevin knew he wasn’t to blame for her behavior or emotional instability but he let the public berate him and blame him anyway.
WHY?

To protect Britney.

That’s love.
And
That’s the truth.

Anonymous said...

^You don't know what the hell you talking about. All that stuff you just said i've read in the tabloids already.

Anonymous said...

i am very proud of britney for going to rehab and i feel it has been one of the best decisions she has made in a while, i am a big fan of hers, but i do not hate kevin at all, its nice to know that if this is true that kevin is there for her, i wish them both happiness, i really hope they do get back together, because when they were together, they were ok, they wernt bar hoppin, they seemed happy! and if they dont i wish they both find happiness, i was really beginning to worry about brit and her chances on getting the bays, but with her doing this, i think she will be able to, i mean the past few months ive been wondering wheres kevin and why isnt he with his kids or her, i dont know the truth but it seemed like he was never with them! i wish brit a great recovery and i wish sean and jayden the best, im guessing there with brits mom! they need there mother well! they need her in there life as a great role model, as well as they need kevin, he should be around them more than he has been! now we all know kevin hasnt stayed away from the club scene either, but nobodys perfect, but because britney is britney, people judge her harder! go britney and kevin... kevin really needs to be there for brit, i think thats what she needs, HER HUSBAND!!!

Anonymous said...

the kids are with Kevin and Kevin's parents 1/3 of the time, with nanny's 1/3 of the time and with Britney's mom 1/3 of the time.

They cycle the kids which is unstable but someone has to care for them.

Britney's is incapable of doing so at this time.

Anonymous said...

Kevin can go to clubs because Kevin can handle being in a club maturely without showing his private parts, getting drunk enough to throw up all over the place and acting in a generally out of control way.
Adults who can control their behavior while at clubs should feel no remorse or regret about going to one, now and then. Particularly if they are an adult in the entertainment community, particularly in the music business, you have to go to clubs every once in awhile, that's where music ideas and dance ideas are born.

However if you are incapable of maintaining control of yourself at a club and get addicted to club drugs, like Britney and Lindsey Lohan for instance, then you need to keep your drunk immature ass at home.

Anonymous said...

To:8:37

Nice copy and paste job bitch. I've seen that same statement on alot of sites. Next time come up with your own opinions.

Anonymous said...

^ LOL! Exactly! I saw that on X17online, and Ruben's blog. Seriously. Get a fucking life. It's probably the same person, going around posting that shit on different sites.

Anonymous said...

I have been going through emotional breakdowns like Britney. I cry every night. I feel like those who were there for me can't or just need a break from me. It's no fun! I am sure those of you who have been down this road or are going through know that. I have been having empty feelings in my stomach and I sometimes don't care what happens to me. I am still going through it. I am trying to even things out. Because I kind of did put them on myself. Wish me luck and Britney too! She's not alone. I feel her pain though I don't know her personally.