Saturday, November 25, 2006

Who are Kevin and Britney and what really happened?

This is a follow up to The story of Kevin and Britney which I posted on November 15, 8 days after Britney filed for divorce. It has now been 18 days since the divorce, and I've spent quite a bit of time thinking about them in this time. I've been following them since they met, but my whole idea of them was turned upside-down on November 7. So who are they really? I re-watched Chaotic. I read through some old interviews. My opinion has also been influenced by one or more anonymous people close to the situation who have commented in this blog. You can decide for yourself if you believe them. I tend to think at least most are true because they sound like they have knowledge the average person wouldn't, plus what they are saying makes sense to me, and it doesn't really seem that unlikely that one or more people close to Kevin might search the net and come across this blog. Here are some of the anonymous comments:

Here's a few comments I got after posting The story of Kevin and Britney:

(1)
a couple problems with your theory

BRITNEY never did text Kevin about the divorce. a friend of his did.

and also

Britney still smokes (cigarettes and marijuana)

(2)
Kevin did NOT say Fuck Britney and did NOT write that note

you are the one who needs to wake up and stop believing tabloid articles

neither kevin nor britney has made a statement about this divorce so people can stop speculating

(3)
THERE ARE SEVERAL people who seem to think that because something is printed in a magazines there is some basis of truth to it

i can tell you first hand that is not true

my best friend was on the cover of tabloids for supposedly cheating with Kevin, not only did it never happen, they were never in a room alone together, we were ALL there with them and Britney was at a hotel down the street

there was NO validity to the story yet newspapers and magazines ALL over the WORLD picked up the story and printed the gossip as if it was true

and people are STILL saying the rumor as if it were true, even though she went on major tv stations an tv shows letting them know it was not true

DON'T believe ANYTHING you read about Kevin and Britney unless you see them from their own mouth verify something

also

nothing in this situation is as it seems

After posting US Weekly's shower door message at House of Blues in Chicago:

(1)
I showed him this last night and he had never seen it before

its a good copy of his handwriting though

After posting the rumors about Britney being upset about the AMA skit:

(1)
Britney didnt dump Kevin by text. The text message that Kevin is viewing that was so famously shown on Much Music was NOT from Britney. it was from a friend of his letting him know that the divorce papers had hit the media.
Kevin was very upset about that.

Kevin did not leave Shar for Britney. Yes, Shar was a few months pregnant when Kevin met Britney , however, they were broken up.

(2)
Kevin was living with Jimmy Federico and Eddie Garcia when he met Britney. 2 of his best friends who are also professional dancers. They lived in a small apartment in The Valley. In fact they still live in that apartment and Kevin just got a apartment above them

- I then asked why Kevin would go on about Britney and the marriage if he knew they were getting divorced, and received the reply:

(3)
he didnt know the divorce was going to happen that soon, although he'd been threatened with divroce a few times, they were seperated for a few weeks before but he still thought they would work it out

however britney is not the person who texted him about the divorce on Muchmusic

the point being that Britney never did contact him about the divorce papers being filed
she let him find out from his friends who saw it on tv and internet

I did notice that especially in the MuchMusic interview, while Kevin talks about how supportive Britney is sometimes you get a sense that maybe something bigger is going on:

Sarah: Okay. This is it. We're going to test your truth. When was the last time you cried? Be honest.

Kevin: All right. You know, I sniffled up a little bit last week when I was missing my children. That's the honest truth. When I was in New York I shed a tear.

Sarah: Did you call them and talk to them?

Kevin: They're too young to really talk to. My other kids I get to talk to all the time. I was really missing Preston and Jayden.

Sarah: Do you have any kind of music specifically you go to when you're feeling those moments?

Kevin: No, I try to stay away from that because then I'll be bawling.

So a few of my theories have changed. After Britney filed for divorce it seemed so cold and calculated that I wondered if she had planned it from the beginning. After going through everything, I don't really think this is likely anymore. In Chaotic Britney talks about sending messages to the universe and how the universe will give stuff back to you. I think at the time she felt that had happened with Kevin, and that she believed it when she said she found her soulmate. She wanted to fall in love and get married, and the universe had answered her. Also she didn't get a prenump when she married Jason, and rumor has it (I don't know if it's true) that she was reluctant to get one with Kevin, so this sounds more like a woman who thinks the universe has answered her than one who has worked out a plan to have kids.

I had also wondered if maybe one of her motives might be that she felt Kevin, or at least his image, was a bad influence on her sons. That theory is out the window. No sooner do I get the anonymous comment "Britney still smokes (cigarettes and marijuana)" then we see Britney smoking and partying with Paris Hilton.

Here are a few new theories. When I re-watched Chaotic, I saw two people that were different but could both be difficult. Britney seemed extremely high maintenance. She demanded everyone's attention whether she was in a good mood or a bad mood. She wanted what she wanted when she wanted it. Kevin was more laid back, but he could be aloof and combatitive. Their relationship, right from the start, was a battle. First Britney begs Kevin to join her on tour, telling him she won't go without him. Then when he's there the first thing she does is tell him to leave (she says she's joking). Britney goes on about how great their sex is, but when Kevin asks her if it's more than that she doesn't answer. Later she tells him she loves him, he doesn't answer, and she tells him she lied. At one point Kevin packed all his things and was prepared to leave. Britney doesn't want him to leave, and they open up to each other. Then Britney asks Kevin to marry her, which catches Kevin by surprise. He says no, but then turns around and asks her. Chaotic ends with their wedding, and a love message from Kevin. He says he can't see himself with anybody else and that he loves her more than anything.

So what happened next and why didn't it work? Although Britney probably needed a break from her career at the time, I also think Britney is a person that thrives on attention. She may not like it when the attention is negative, but she loves to perform and she loves being a superstar and having the world pay attention. It's part of her appeal. Things would have been different after the tour and the wedding. While on tour she had lots of people around her, and Kevin's only job was to entertain her. After the wedding they bought a house and Britney got pregnant. Kevin had his own ambitions, and I Britney encouraged them. She put him in her "My Prerogative" video before they were even married. She interviewed with Kevin in Details magazine. Kevin started working on his CD. But as time went on, I think a few things happened. The negativity around their marriage didn't disappear the way they had hoped. Britney got pregnant a second time shortly after Sean Preston. I don't know whether that was planned or not but it meant more time away from the public and performing and doing what she loved to do. Meanwhile, Kevin was spending more and more time on his career. Not only that, but he had decided to play on the negativity and developed a FU kind of persona. I could see Britney having a couple of problems. (1) It seems likely that a high maintenance person like Britney simply wasn't getting enough attention. (2) Kevin's FU persona could threaten her chances of remaining in the public spotlight for good, especially since it didn't look he was going to be a hit in the music world. Britney may have gone through a "My Prerogative" stage, and she may still like to be "rebellion", but at the end of the day I think she loves the public and she loves the attention they give her. An anonymous comment says Britney threatened divorce a few times before she actually did it. Since their relationship had been a battle from the beginning I can see why Kevin might think she didn't really mean it and/or that she would change her mind. But Britney had more going on then Kevin realized. In his MuchMusic interview Kevin talks about how Britney would wake him up in the middle of the night to talk about nothing important, and how he would like her to let him get his sleep. I think maybe it was far more important for him to listen and pay attention than Kevin probably realized at the time.

Now what would have been the happy ending? If Britney had talked to Kevin one more time, and Kevin had been able to respond to give Britney more of what she needed. But that's not what happened. There are lots of marriages where people go in thinking that being "soulmates" is enough, but sooner or later they either learn that there's a lot more to it, or they wind up divorced or in unhappy marriages.

Instead of calling Kevin, Britney called Larry, the mastermind of public relations. And he did a beautiful job of making the public love Britney. The only problem is, it was at the expense of Kevin. She dumped him right before we got the sales figures for "Playing With Fire", and she did it with a big public smile on her face. She did it right at the start of Kevin's tour and gave him no warning, not even a text message (if the anonymous comments are to be believed). Kevin found out when the rest of the world did. While I do not blame Britney for all of the problems in that marriage, the way she handled the divorce is all on her. I was absolutely appalled by it. I had always thought of Britney as this really nice person and I couldn't believe what she had done.

I was also appalled by the public reaction. Cheering? I realize they were taking their cue from Britney but since when is a divorce a reason to celebrate, especially when there are babies involved. I realize now that although I've been following Britney and Kevin long enough to know that most of what is printed about them is not true, most people probably believed at least part of it. I also realize now that some people are lucky enough to never have had divorce touch their lives and really don't understand what it's all about. I saw some comments like "it's been two weeks, why isn't the divorce over?" and my jaw dropped. I wish I was lucky enough to know so little about divorce. It also made me think that maybe it should be just as hard to get into marriage as it is to get out of it. I wonder if the divorce rate would drop by simply making it a requirement that the date people get their marriage license has to be at least 6 months before the wedding date. But I digress.

So how could Britney do it? If she's not this cold person who went in with a plan to have a couple of babies and get out, if she truly went in thinking they were "soulmates", how could she do it? After spending some time thinking about it, I've come to the conclusion that Britney is just really bad at taking responsibility for her actions. If you think about it, we've seen some of this from the beginning. When the world was outraged at that a bad role model Britney was, Britney's response was that she didn't want to be a role model. Which is fine and well and understandable to a point, but the truth was that she was a role model whether she wanted to be one or not. People wanted her to take responsibility for that and she didn't. When asked about what happened with Jason her first response was that she swept away in the moment of being in Vegas. Okay. But then she got it annulled and never talked to Jason again. Jason had to face public ridicule on his own (perhaps a foreshadowing of what was to come), plus, from the sounds of it in interviews, he truly cared about Britney, and it was tough for him to get over what had happened. Britney's "mistake" had big consequences for someone else, but she didn't even pick up the phone to apologize or see how he was doing, and she'd known him since childhood. When Britney was photographed driving with Sean Preston her first response was that she was terrified of the paparazzi and had to get away. She did say she made a mistake the next day (probably at her manager's advice). But later in the Dateline interview, for which she didn't allow anyone around her, not even a hair and makeup person, she refused to say that the incident was a mistake and instead said she was "country" and she just wanted to be left alone. I realize that she lives in a weird world where she can't leave the house without the world wanting something from her, and that she has all kinds of people around her telling her what to do. But she's an adult now and it's not really an excuse. She seems to be really into "rebellion," but I have another word for it and that's plain old inconsiderate. Even at the wedding in Chaotic you can see that neither her mother or her father are particularly pleased by the surprise. Probably not the first time they've had to deal with her surprises, and maybe, subconsciously or not, Britney likes doing things this way because it keeps everyone focused on her. So Britney dumps Kevin with no notice, and then two weeks later she presents at an awards show just after a joke where they pack Kevin up and dump him in the ocean. Maybe the reason Britney was so upset about it was because it was kind of symbolic of what she had just done to him.

Kevin paid a pretty big price for this little problem that Britney has taking responsibility. But I think Kevin will be okay in the end. I've been really impressed with the way he's gone on and completed his tour. I think he's right to stay in the public eye right now if he wants to continue a celebrity career. He has family and friends around him. But it really has to have been a tough month to be Kevin Federline, no matter how strong he is. In the long run, I'm far more concerned about the children. Kori is old enough to understand some of this. I wonder how that's going to affect her, not to mention her and Kaleb's relationship with Sean Preston and Jayden James. Sean Preston and Jayden James will now grow up with divorced parents. And no matter what happens now, when they look back at this time they are going to see the public ridiculing their dad and a nice picture of Britney smiling on the cover of People magazine with the title "Britney files for divorce!" I have hope that the future looks brighter. Kevin and Britney are partners in raising two boys and I really hope they are both up to the responsibility of all that that means.

33 comments:

Anonymous said...

1)brit is spoiled and childish and should not even allowed to raise 2 hamsters much less 2 children...

2)fed-ex is a no talent opportunistic poser...i would like you to run a comparison photo show of fed-ex and that weasel from the foghorn leghorn cartoons

3)people are enjoying this circus because that his human nature to enjoy watching the rich&famous crash and burn in a hilarious fashion...in the case of fed-ex it's watching him throw bags of brit's money on stupid shit like customized brake calipers on a ferrari"federline" or a home studio with a rack of guitars that he can't play for an excremental rap cd that set a record on itunes for most bad and creative ways to describe bad music(read the review that compared "playing with fire" with a wharehouse full of dead pigs)...

4)i'm having a most enjoyable time on your site...remember keep smiling that's what friends are for...

kristen said...

i would not believe alot of those quotes, for example,they couldnt even get his best friends name right, its Eddie Morales,not garcia and if they cant even get that right,i have to question the rest of the things they said.

Anonymous said...

That's ridic. You just blame Britney. You say the stuff we see in the media isn't true yet you believe this is his first time hearing about the divorce. What probably happened is she threatened divorce a few times and he didn't believe her. She ended up really doing it and he probably felt bad because he took her for granted. And as far as her smiling....why not smile? You get divorce because you want out and to feel liberated. Why not smile about liberation? And you say the public took their cue from Britney? So if they took her cues why didn't they like Kevin in the beginning because she did. So they would've given your ragged theory. It's easy to blame her because she filed and the video shows him sad about it but you don't truly know the story. I'm 100 percent sure he wasn't blind sided, it just probably hurts to actually get the papers filed and stuff. It's life. Why should she base her life on his album release? Or his tour? He wouldn't have sold more because of her waiting another week. That's crazy. And she did that a day before his numbers were to come in, not really a big time for people to buy more cds. I'm not blaming him because I don't know what happened, but to put it all on Britney is stupid. She supported him while they were together, when others didn't, what more could she have done? If anything she gave him a platform to build from after their marriage. Dude, be less judgemental and look at things from others point of view. You keep saying you're trying to see it from her point of view but you just make her out to be a villian. They both were married. They both did things. So it's not just her.

Anonymous said...

You lost all creditability when you continue to say you don't blame Britney, but only talk about poor Kevin. X17 has pretty solid proof that Kevin hasn't even been living with Britney for a while. There is no way he didn't know. Britney has had too many old friends who still say what a sweet girl she is. Why would that sweet girl do something like that to the guy she once loved?

She grew up too fast and might be a little crazy, but there has to be a reason for doing what she did. She put up with a lot of shit, and gave Kevin a LOT. Gave Kevin's kids a LOT. Why don't you recognize that? Without her and her support he would not be where he is today.

So why did he go on Much Music and other interviews saying how much they were in love and how much he loved and missed his kids, even though he never sees them.... ? Publicity of course. Kevin wanted to be the MAN and he has disrespected Britney in interviews time and time again, even when they were married.

You do know Kevin's cd sold 100 copies this week? He only went on with his tour because he really didn't have much else to do.

I don't really like the Paris/Britney thing, but if she needs to get out after two years and have a little fun for a few weeks I see nothing wrong with it. I notice you said it's fine for Kevin to party since he needs to be seen, but it's not okay for Britney. He loves his kids he says, but is in Vegas instead of in Malibu to see them.

Kevin might be a nice enough guy, but where is HIS BLAME? Because he didn't listen to needy Britney enough isn't blaming him.

You also shouldn't believe anon comments with false information.

Anonymous said...

you make me sick ... Britney has said many times that she smoke normal smokes but never did dope that she has only gotten high from the smell & that she would never put it to her mouth .. that she couldn't... grow the fuck up & stop bad mouthing Britney & having fake ass people come on here to get your site out there .. & say the truth.. stop bad mouthing britney... you say not to beleive things unless Britney & Kevin say then... why don't you listern & take your own advice & not beleive all the rumors about Britney that make her look bad hell why don't you just say "shes an unfit mother who has fake boobs, breast feed her boys & had a tummy tuck" thats all the untrue rumors about her so why not just say that in your little stories.

Anonymous said...

There is a new video on x17 of Britney, Paris and little Sean Preston. The kicker? Paris HOLDING SP! Crazy!

Anonymous said...

So last night at the Dixie Chicks concert, Natalie Maines dedicated "White Trash Wedding" to Kevin.

"She was like, so I wanted to dedicate this song to K-Fed because I'm so nice. So...K-Fed...

You can't afford no ring.... "

Anonymous said...

From Marcia, a family counselor:

Both of them came from far less than perfect childhoods, and if you look at data, you'll see that folks that grow up in broken families, their chances become about 75% that they will end up in a divorce instead of 52% when each come from solid families. Statistically, they didn't have much of a chance, and then you add on even more stressors from their life styles the odds were against them.

Her life, her career has revolved around her getting what she wants and needs to perform. The Diva persona grows from a series of successes. The success in her career has continued to reinforce her drive to get what she wants. He has also lived his life the way he wants, and likes the notariety he gets from being outside what is generally considered a "stable" and "upstanding citizenship" and what is considered healthy relationships. They are both very single minded in thought: they want- what they want - when they want it, and when they are tired of it, they change the channel and do something else.

Neither of these two have acted through a well thought out plan. And as far as soulmates, that over used cliche, speaks more generally to those people who find an incredibly strong initial physical attraction supported later by a likemindedness of thought.

They didn't have that likemindedness of thought- he seems to have an embarrassment of being linked to a pop princess, as if that genre of music itself is distasteful, or beneath his true sense of "street". Her delving into being a "bad girl", is still seen as a young girl playing at what she wants to be, not seriously coming into the Urban street scene. What they want and the arena in which they want success is different, too different.

Generally relationships that start quickly, end quickly and this one is no exception. In Louisiana, where I work, I see women who think and act like Britney all the time. Marriage generally happens young, with most girls finding their partners in either high school, or college, if they go. But most certainly before the age of 21. Britney would come home to Louisiana to find her friends married, their home lives beginning. When all of your childhood buddies are marrying, you feel like you are missing out. She mentions this in chaotic.


In addition, she has a southern way of communicating with men, which is by it's nature manipulative. In areas of the deep South where men continue to open doors for women, and there is still a reverence for the southern belle, and beauty pagents, you see women act out the little girl personas as they flirt to get what they want. Scarlet O'Hara in Vivian Leigh is still a much admired woman, strong but flirty and manipulative.

Britney's southern accent is stronger in chaotic, than you'll ever see in controlled situations, like awards ceremonies.

As you watch Chaotic, you can see her country hick actions, which are both cute and annoying to him. On one hand, she's a cute superstar, but on the other she's a "country bumpkin" who clearly doesn't understand his world, which he wants to be the hardcore streets, the world of the gangsta and pimps. He is somewhat aloof, which is not what she is used to, she's used to a lot of attention, yet she has to nearly pursue this guy, or make the effort to connect with him or buy him things to make him continue interest in her. She has to work at getting his attention, and frequently, like an adolescent, she does it in ways to make him angry, because in that anger she gets attention. Also, I suspect he has an underlying fear early in Chaotic, that if he messes up too much or doesn't get in close, she'll be gone.

Divorce happens in relationships at a greater percentage when the thought of breaking up looms in their heads, and it is there from the beginning, seen on tape. The exact details of how and when and why arent' there to us, but the feeling of a rickety relationship is there. But there is also a feeling of co-dependence- they feed off of each other's insecurities and the feelings of aloneness. They are caught up in a high adrenline situation, and there is nothing more addictive than your own adrenline. The idea that the mother and attorney staged an intervention is plausible and reasonable - otherwise the destructiveness would probably have escalated, with more anger, more running to Las vegas to "blow off steam" and other destrutive coping mechanisms, including alcohol or marijuana, neither of which are healthy ways to cope with problems.

Whose fault was the break up? It was a relationship built more on timing and availablity of the participants, not of likemindedness and shared goals and direction. Two, high adenaline people in the prime of their reproductive years, the science of life and time on their hands. The how and why and who said, she said he said, is of no consequence, it was destined to be a short relationship, only prolonged by a legal marriage, children and money.

Anonymous said...

Then my question is: Why didn't Ms. Southern Belle stay with Mr. Southern Charm if she wanted that life? I mean she could have had it all with Timberlake. The famous. The positive media. The sweet Southern boy charm. The marriage. The babies. ETC!

She messed that one up. And if we are to believe Mr. Fred Durst (who I am starting to because man was intense in the Spears hatred for a minute) she was thisclose to going back to Justin and work it out because she was "tripping" when he convinced her to change her mind and hang out with him for a few days.

Hmmmm.

She chose her life. No need to drag yet ANOTHER man down because things didn't go her way.

Anyone remember the other "dancer/babydaddy" Columbus Short? Remember how fast that ended when the media came a knocking. He has done alight though for himself. Was in the movie "Accepted" and now on "Studio 60"

See Kevin. Should have excaped when you had the chance. You might have actually had a successful career.

Britney is Toxic!

Anonymous said...

the last writer is an idiot.

Alison said...

Thanks for your comments everyone, especially Marcia, I appreciate your insight.

Anonymous said...

You are welcome. The story hasn't ended however. Britney is wearing the diamond he bought her. This is symbolic of not letting go yet.

My greatest fear is that this is all about publicity, and that trivializes relationships in general. The amount of attention these two have gotten couldn't have been manufactured in any larger way, the media headlines couldn't have been bought.

It may turn out that it was a media ploy to:

1) show her "muscle", as way to get him to settle down and focus on their relationship and not run to Las Vegas or spend so much time with his friends. This is not unusual in young mariages- it happens to folks regardless of their economics.

2) give him an opportunity to show that he has the talent to make himself a superstar on his own.

3) Make her again attractive in the audience's eyes by having her unattached.

all with the focus of making their life better and increasing income.

Marcia

Anonymous said...

your welcome alison...now will you run that comparison photo show of kevin and a weasel....


the conspiracy theorist

Anonymous said...

Britney is wearing the ring she bought HERSELF. You are crazy to think Kevin ever bought Britney anything with his own money. He didn't make that much and putting out a CD cost a LOT of money. Normal people can't get studio time to do that. He said he was broke.

Anonymous said...

Marcia I couldn't disagree more with everything you say. Being from the South myself, nobody is like that here. Don't feed into stereotypes. Kevin saw his chance with needy Britney to make some quick money and have a better life. If Kevin is just so wonderful and talented why didn't he get anywhere before Britney? You say he was ashamed of Britney being a pop star. Well, he should be ashamed that HE claims he is a pimp from the "mean" streets of Frenso. Nobody took him seriously because of how the relationship started. No matter what he should NOT have married Britney while Shar was pregnant I don't care if they were broken up. No. That shows right there what kind of man he was. He never should have bragged about his riches that were NOT his. He should have waited a few years and did things slowly if he wanted a career.

It's just silly people actually write that Kevin was overshadowing Briney and that is why she was upset. The whole world HATES Kevin for what he "did" to Britney, even if it wasn't all his doing.

Anonymous said...

Again, it's important to take a step back from the "he said, she said" and look at the dynamics of the relationship. The idea of blaming one or the other is a very narrow way of thinking. We are only seeing parts of their troubled relationship.

Their relationship has turned into a spectator's sport, with advocates on both sides assuming way too much from the sketchy details.

Marcia

fibi said...

u guys are crazy.have youre life and dont pay attention to this fake things.just britney and kevin know what happen between them if there is sth.let them to say the truth not the media.fuck the media .fuck the papparazi,britney is so nice and a good mom.also i love kevin to cuz he has a big heart as britney say.

Anonymous said...

Oh, and I meant to comment on this quote from above:

" Being from the South myself, nobody is like that here. Don't feed into stereotypes."

I must disagree. This is not a stereotype, but it is perhaps an overstatement. Not every woman in the south is overtly like Scarlett, however there are many who are in dysfunctional relationships who clearly are.

From my years as a family and marriage therapist, both in Louisiana and in Indiana prior to that, I have seen a distinct behavioral pattern more prevalent in southern relationships, that perhaps someone
from the south might not easily recognize.

Look again at chaos and you'll see what I am saying.

Again, I don't think anyone can blame either of them specifically for the demise of their relationship, it was, as I said before:
" a relationship built more on timing and availablity of the participants, not of likemindedness and shared goals and direction. Two, high adenaline people in the prime of their reproductive years, the science of life and time on their hands."

Marcia

Anonymous said...

I think Marcia has a point.

Neither one and both are to blame.

But why is she still wearing his ring? (he has said that he used his 2 mil earnings from Chaos to buy the ring, 200,000.)

Anonymous said...

you know what? I am choosing to believe the actual words of Britney and Kevin and not speculation from random people assuming things.

Kevin says he bought her the ring with money HE earned himself. (people will always say "oh he wouldnt have earned it without britney" who cares? he earned it, that's what matters. Everyone earns their money somehow or another. Some people work for their parents, but do you go up to them and say "oh you didnt buy that car your grandfather did, you wouldnt have your job if it wasnt for him?"
that is a stupid argument to make.

He earned it, Britney feels he earned it as well. He took the money that he earned himself and bought his wife a ring.

Good for him.
No one is perfect but you have to have your own morals. People think he should be ashamed of this, that or the other.

No he shouldnt.

he knows what his morals and his values are. He doesnt base his morals and values on what other people think he should base them on.

Anonymous said...

great speech- but why is she wearing it?

Anonymous said...

She wants him back.

Anonymous said...

Puhlease. If she wanted him, she would have him. She is the one who filed remember.

Anonymous said...

She's oop..playing with his heart.

Anonymous said...

won't it be great when his kids are running around singing

middle finger.

Anonymous said...

his crappy ryhmes are about a lifestyle of wealth(not his own),material possesions(which someone bought for him),his hard life(in hick town fresno)....he is a punchline because of his inflated opinion of himself and the fact that he just doesn't get it...

Anonymous said...

But he's hot.........

Anonymous said...

if your into weasels...

Anonymous said...

Marcia, I see your point and I agree with you somewhat.
The thing for me is, I was a fan of Britney for years, I gave her the benefit of the doubt through all the stupid things she has done, the past couple of years I saw a Britney that I really liked, I actually believe her when she said this is what I want, and this is how I wants to live my life, there're a few things that I didn't agree with her about, but I put it off has 'human error' we all have that, but now I really don't know what to think of her, to me she seem to be slipping back into the same place she was 3-4 years ago, the thing is this time their are 2 very young children involve.
While Kevin don't hid the smoking and drinking, Britney is very discreet about the way she does things, ppl say Kevin was the one that make her do this or that, and to me it seem from the past few weeks that's what she wants everyone to believe, it makes me wonder what kind of games was she playing, she likes the positive attention she's getting now so much, why didn't she put herself together then, like she's doing now? some ppl say she didn't say anything negative about Kevin and it's all media speculation and made up stories, but what would you think after the past few of weeks, from the way she has acted and portrait herself, it wasn't long ago she was on TV saying she just wants to be left alone, and I felt so bad for her, but all of a sudden she welcome all the attention and to me this all make it looks like kevin is the sonofabitch that was making her act and carry herself as the media as claim so many times.

I don't know what went on in this marriage, cause behind close doors nobody knows what is said/discussed, nobody really know who these two ppl are, and my observation of the whole situation is from the outside, and from what I see, I'm really scared for or the kids, it's not just Sean and Jayden, but also Kori and Kaleb, all four kids have a connection through their father, and the worst thing that can happen is that these children don't get to bond with eachother, I speak from experience when I say that the most hurtful thing in the world is having a sibling (or as somepeople call it half-sibling) and not know anything about he/she, or have no kind of connection other than a shared parent.

What I'm really hoping is that Kevin and Britney can come to some real understanding as to how Sean and Jayden is going to spend time with both parent, Kevin needs as much time with Sean and Jayden as Britney has with them, for him as well as for Kori and Kaleb and their other granparents. These two needs to limit anymore resentment these children are going to have towards one or the other in the long run, children growup, they hear and see things and they learn from it all, the past can not be erased, but the future don't have to go along the same path, don't let the children have to chose between Mom or Dad later, they both should take TIME to COMMUNICATE, LISTEN and DO THINGS in a way that their actions now won't affect the children as they get older.

KELLY.

Anonymous said...

Marcia, I see your point and I agree with you somewhat.
The thing for me is, I was a fan of Britney for years, I gave her the benefit of the doubt through all the stupid things she has done, the past couple of years I saw a Britney that I really liked, I actually believe her when she said this is what I want, and this is how I wants to live my life, there're a few things that I didn't agree with her about, but I put it off has 'human error' we all have that, but now I really don't know what to think of her, to me she seem to be slipping back into the same place she was 3-4 years ago, the thing is this time their are 2 very young children involve.
While Kevin don't hid the smoking and drinking, Britney is very discreet about the way she does things, ppl say Kevin was the one that make her do this or that, and to me it seem from the past few weeks that's what she wants everyone to believe, it makes me wonder what kind of games was she playing, she likes the positive attention she's getting now so much, why didn't she put herself together then, like she's doing now? some ppl say she didn't say anything negative about Kevin and it's all media speculation and made up stories, but what would you think after the past few of weeks, from the way she has acted and portrait herself, it wasn't long ago she was on TV saying she just wants to be left alone, and I felt so bad for her, but all of a sudden she welcome all the attention and to me this all make it looks like kevin is the sonofabitch that was making her act and carry herself as the media as claim so many times.

I don't know what went on in this marriage, cause behind close doors nobody knows what is said/discussed, nobody really know who these two ppl are, and my observation of the whole situation is from the outside, and from what I see, I'm really scared for or the kids, it's not just Sean and Jayden, but also Kori and Kaleb, all four kids have a connection through their father, and the worst thing that can happen is that these children don't get to bond with eachother, I speak from experience when I say that the most hurtful thing in the world is having a sibling (or as somepeople call it half-sibling) and not know anything about he/she, or have no kind of connection other than a shared parent.

What I'm really hoping is that Kevin and Britney can come to some real understanding as to how Sean and Jayden is going to spend time with both parent, Kevin needs as much time with Sean and Jayden as Britney has with them, for him a

Anonymous said...

From Marcia:

I find it objectionable when people say "he made her do this" or "She made him do that".

They each made their own choices.

They are adults, they made choices.

We can look at the few moments of their lives that someone shows us and make up stories on what we think it means about them, but we really don't know. We can listen to how they act in front of the camera, we can interpret what is important to them by the words they write and the songs that they sing.

But we really don't know them.

Anonymous said...

these days he look a lot better than she does

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